Can Money Buy Friendship?
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Can Money buy friendship?
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When you see a title like this , you will think .
“Okay , there is a guy who is super rich , he spent his money on everybody , so that people will like him”
Then , most people (trying to be a smart ass) will answer ..
“Yes , money can buy friendship . But temporary friends , or fake friends . They want to be your friend just because of your money . Nothing else . Money cannot buy true friendship”
or
“Yes, money can buy friendship but the real question is what kind of friends are you buying”
After answering , most people will question themselves , “who are my best friends?” “Are they my real friends?”
then they smile and say to themselves “i think we will still be best friends even though both of us are broke
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Well , actually my question is the other way round .
Can money buy friendship?
If i give you $$$$ will you burn your friendship ? and never be friends again .
Will you give up your friendship , just to make that extra $$$$ , and tell your friend , “this is business dude , don’t take it personal “
In my last post about being in a band . I did mentioned that money will keep a band together and committed .
Maybe I was wrong . It did worked for a few years . But i do not think it will last .
Have you ever seen a band , who were once blood brothers . And i mean BROTHERS , a group of friends who are willing to fight and stand up for each other. till death .
But as they grow , they changed . Its about “How much is the pay” ..and some even said “i got the deal , i deserve that big commission” ..
After a few more years , its all about cheating your blood brother’s money . It doesn’t matter what he gets , as long as I GET EVERYTHING .
Like a fkin dog ripping off the hand that feeds him
Your blood brother trusted you , like a fool .
And when he found out about what you’ve done . He began to think ,
all these months
all these years
all the shit we’ve been through together
and he asked himself ,
did he do this and that for this grant scheme?
was i played all along?
How long did he planned this ?
Why am i so stupid and naive ?
Why did i trust him like a stupid man?
Bridges were burned , from now on , your blood brother SHUT HIS DOORS . Swears that he will never get hurt , and never get cheated again .
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Its kinda like LOVE .
Once you get hurt . You treat love as a game . You concluded that this world is evil and the world isn’t fair.
You used to open your heart and love like there is no tomorrow . But now , your heart is not open .
You completely shut yourself off , because you do not trust anyone anymore . including yourself .
You are not you anymore
You developed , what i called , the two-face .

One that is ugly inside you , hiding . doesn’t want to come out . Hurt and haunted by the past . Crying inside .Waiting to be saved.
The other , is the pretty outlook appearance . It shows everything is fine and you are doing well . Shows that you are full of confidence , you are strong .YOU ARE THE MAN .
But the truth is , deep inside you , you know that the confidence is a show , and you are WEAK .You are vulnerable.
haha..how long can the ugly side stays beneath your mask ? wait till it comes out ..then we will see the real you .
hate in your heart will consume you too


November 5th, 2009 at 6:48 pm
money actually controls everything. even ur health, haha.. but depends on ppl la, some ppl dont follow their heart as much and knows wuts best
November 5th, 2009 at 7:01 pm
which friend betrayed you? :p
November 6th, 2009 at 2:00 am
aihhhh…gapnap.com becoming darker and darker .
November 6th, 2009 at 11:35 am
Did somebody stiff you out of some grant money? What’re you doing with grants anyway - researching for a 16-string guitar? lol.
If you want friendship I can recommend this place in Vegas where they wear high heels and they’ll be happy to be your friend for 3 hours for US$200. You have 100% attention from them and they’ll be anything you want, hahaha.
I’ve had friends I spent $200 on (buying them drinks in a London club, not Vegas friends) and they didn’t last that long.
November 6th, 2009 at 12:14 pm
i think friends you made during high school years will stick with you till the end. as for the others, time will slowly weed them out and you realise they’re all with you for self-beneficial reasons. not all la, of course -_-
November 6th, 2009 at 7:03 pm
yea sometimes money reli ruins a relationship. but it also depends on individuals actually. some people do take such things for granted. and even if we are nice enough to remain loyal to our friends, these friends of ours might try to manipulate or even use us. they take us for granted. so they will keep requesting us to do some stuff for them…ALL THE TIME.
yes, we can help once or twice..or even 10 times. but how long can we do that? sad to say that friendship and any relationship should be 2-sided. if we keep giving, we’ll start to feel tired. and when we feel tired, we give up and tell these friends of ours, we can’t do it anymore and we’re busy with our life.
then they will start to say “we’re blood brothers! how can u say this to me? i trusted u!” and all those crap.
November 7th, 2009 at 12:44 am
eh gapnap, what about you give me the rm xxxxx to find out my opinion. coz i don;t know too.
maybe both of us will find out if there’s really such case happening. i only see it in cheap hong kong series.
November 7th, 2009 at 11:41 am
I never believe with the blood brothers theory…
In fact being blood brothers give me more reasons to say no because I wouldn’t want my brother to be dependent on someone all the time.
November 8th, 2009 at 3:56 am
awww…you can be my friend
November 8th, 2009 at 5:57 pm
@Deadeye . If you let money controls you , then it will control everything . You see like Sam , money don’t control him punya …
@Ross . MUAHAHAHA.that is for me to know , and for you to find out (freaking high school line)
@Andrew . Thank you !
@Damien . Now i know why you don’t need a gf . You are a frequent Las Vegas boy
Why don’t you go somewhere nearer ? thailand is good but you gotta check .
@slowhands . LOL , there’s a group of 10-20 guys who were bestest of the bestest heng dai in high school . But they split . Not because of money . Guess what ? because of DOTA !
@Alvin . hehehe..i get what you’re trying to say .
I guess its the same for blogging too right ? If it is one sided , it gets tiring . If it is two sided , it is encouraging
November 8th, 2009 at 5:59 pm
@vincent .Interesting question. Well , it is not a straight line “i give you RMxxxx can you not be friends with this guy”
It is more like , there is a deal , a big client that pays RM10,000 for an event .
I get greedy , i lie to my “brother” and tell him this event is only RM1000 , pay him half , RM500 . And i sapu the RM9500 . Then he finds out about it . Would you do that ? What if the amount was BIGGER ?
@Kevin . Those are strong words my brother .
I wish i could be like you . I am dependent on many things , from my guitar , my trusted friends , my gf , my parents , my God . Life is full of ups and downs , business is full of ups and downs . Sometimes when you fall hard and you are at the BOTTOM , it is hard to find that strength to pick yourself up again . This is where other people comes in and help you to put things together and re-build your life .
@yong . You are my friend! haha
November 9th, 2009 at 12:06 pm
hmm good question. then i will take the money and use a lil to belanja him makan. he will think i’m good to him and then i get to keep the rest without feeling the guilt. at least he “ate” some of it.
November 9th, 2009 at 2:40 pm
LOL . i think if he finds out , he will still be pissed right ?
You can always use the “i met an accident i need cash” excuse